Controversial title? Perhaps.
Completely logical and reasonable. Definitely.
I will always fight for your right to have a selfish life.
This includes:
your health
your relationship
your business
your social life
and anything else you find important to living well.
And the reason why I so firmly stand behind this statement is because I fundamentally believe and trust that when people are happy, healthy and fulfilled they make magic in this world for themselves AND others.
There are NO genuinely happy people out there dropping bombs or stealing candy from babies.
When you think about you know its true as well.
Consider anyone in your life that you love:
Don’t you wish their dreams came true and they were living the life they desired?
Can’t you imagine how wonderful that would be for them, their friends, their family and their community?
Give yourself the same credit.
Self fulfilment comes from selfishness because you have identified, honoured and met your needs. Being selfish in your business is merely another indicator that you value yourself and your wants, needs and desires.
What this might look like:
Only accepting the type, amount and frequency of clients that feels good.
Charging for your services to support your goals and lifestyle.
Creating products and services that you enjoy and want to.
Changing your mind.
Taking time off.
Create your own list and feel welcome to borrow some of mine if they align with you. Listen to your intuition and ask it to speak up.
And if you are still wondering if this is worth the time and energy?
When you are happy, healthy and fulfilled your attract more clients, have more fun and make more money.
Share what connected with you today and what your selfish looks like in the comments.
And if you know that this conservation needs to go further so that you can go further too, book a free call where we can connect and chat about your particular dreams and goals and let’s make some magic.
Nikki x
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