There's nothing more frustrating than not knowing what to do next (or is that just me?)
We are nearly in December of 2023 and I'm noticing an increasing trend on my socials of burnout, blow ups or people feeling totally bombarded by the multitude of gurus online that promise a million dollar strategy to fix your life and business.
(Which you totally KNOW on an intuitive level is BS...but the small voice inside kinda hopes they're right and there's an easy answer to your big problems.)
And the reason this is so prevalent - and so toxic - is that it is feeding into a very real pain point of so many of us. That we really, truly, hungrily WANT to know what to do.
You're willing to work hard.
You're ready to go all in.
You're passionate about making change.
But...
Where do you even start?
Friends, I'm pretty sure I'm in safe company when I reveal that I don't like it when I'm confused, overwhelmed and feel like nothing makes sense. In fact, I bet you're right there with me on this one. On a personal note, I have no doubt that I stayed in teaching for 10 years even though I knew that teaching wasn't what I wanted to do because I had no idea of what I did want to do! And that most of my business 'failures' have been because I stressed myself into a position that felt impossible to get out of - and what we think about we bring about - so I ended up fizzling out FAST. It (confusion) can be such a head fuck. And for me, it lead to never ending conversations with myself that took me everywhere besides to a place of clarity or certainty on what to do about leaving teaching.
I liked art - but was that enough?
I liked educating - then why not stay as a teacher?
I like travelling - but that’s not a job is it?
So for every clue, I gave myself more ways to be confused.
Today I want to give you a simple 3 step process to unlock clarity for yourself and get into aligned action.
3 Step Process to Take Aligned Action
1. Do whatever it takes to purge, release and reset yourself mind, body and soul before you start even thinking of a solution. In the words of a smarter Being than me, "We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them." - Albert Einstein Which includes the energy and emotions we are showing up in too. Full Self Reset.
2. Do yourself a favour and get really clear on why you are seeking this answer and what it means to you. Recently, I discovered I was OBSESSING over getting clarity on an issue in my business that was actually a wild goose chase. Knowing the answer to that question wouldn't have given me more clarity on my direction or the necessary actions I'd need to take next. So the lesson here is make sure you actually get clarity on the clarity you're seeking - it will save you so much time and potentially save you from a lot of sleepless nights (and migraines). You're welcome ;P
3. Compassionately create the space for yourself and for your intuition to be able to speak up (don't hustle you're heart here).
I know, I know, I know.
You want to be done with the decision making so you can get on with the creating...but that's how you got here in the first place.
True alignment - and showing up authentically in your life and business - cannot be rushed. That doesn't mean it has to take years, however a few more weeks in the scheme of things isn't very much at all.
Take the time*. You deserve it.
And by taking a step back from the chaos, you will do wonders for allowing clarity to come in.
*Disclaimer: Depending on what decision or area in life you're wanting clarity on, this could happen within 5 minutes or it might take a little bit longer - so do yourself a favour and give it a go AND give it the time it needs.
Let me know which step you need to hear today (or maybe it was all three).
Unlocking Clarity
And if you'd like some support on seeing through your own BS - something we all need at times - I'm offering a limited amount of 20 minute free clarity calls to help you identify where you need to start. Simply email me at contact@nikkiwouters.com to claim your space. Curious what's in store for you in 2024? A great way to get clarity on what to do next in life or business is to order your personalised 2024 Intuitive Forecast! This is a comprehensive 12 Month report channeled through my Guides and my Tarot and Oracle Cards. For more information or to order your personalised Forecast head over HERE.
Love, trust and pixie dust.
Your Intuitive Coach,
Nikki x
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