We’re officially in December now - a time when we reflect on where we’ve been and look forward to where we’re going. And whether that feels really good right now...or totally terrifying (no judgement, 2024 has been a rollercoaster ride) here’s something to think about as you envision the life you want.
How we get there, is how we be there.
This means the energy, integrity and intentions you bring to your journey are the same ones you’ll need to live with when you 'arrive'. If you’re building your dreams from a place of stress, self-doubt or misalignment...those feelings will follow you. Even when you achieve your goals and celebrate your successes.
I had 17k month in my business - obviously a huge win - and while part of me thought I was 'finally there' a deeper part of me realised I'd done it by creating a set of offers that weren't lighting my soul up.
In fact, they were slowly snuffing my light out.
And piece by piece, my integrity pulled me back on path. On the outside this looked like less money, clients and clout but on the inside I could finally breathe easily again. There was no more performance or pressure to keep up and my excitement and magic began to return.
And it's not just me...
In a recent client session (1:1 coaching spaces are available for 2025 btw so reach out to discuss your options) we spoke about this very topic. How the little white lies and performances so many of us do to get by, hurry things along or avoid conflict aren't actually inconsequential choices.
The way we choose to act on a micro level is what makes up the larger tapestry of our lives, businesses and relationships.
So today, I want to encourage you to take an deeper look at the way you're moving through life.
Are You Being Honest With Yourself?
Building a life that feels authentic from start to finish starts with truth - your truth.
Ask yourself the following: ✨ Am I pursuing this goal because it’s what I truly want, or because I feel I should? ✨ Am I taking actions that align with my values, or am I cutting corners for short-term results? ✨ Am I being kind to myself along the way, or am I striving in a way that feels draining?
Sometimes, we fall into habits of chasing outcomes without checking in with our hearts.
But when you choose integrity: when you live, act and dream in alignment with your truth - you not only create a more fulfilling life but also feel more at peace every step of the way.
The Power of Integrity And A Book That Changed My Perspective
One of the most powerful tools I’ve found for reconnecting with integrity is Martha Beck’s phenomenal book The Way of Integrity. I loved it so much that I gifted it to all my participants in The Life Reset Group Program this year!
This book is a beautiful guide to understanding how to live in alignment with your deepest truths. It’s practical, insightful and heart-mind-and-soul-opening. A perfect gift for yourself or someone you love this holiday season.
If you’ve been feeling out of sync or like something’s missing, The Way of Integrity might just be what you need to reset and realign.
The Time to Start Is Now
With just a few weeks left in the year, it’s easy to think, I’ll start fresh in January but here’s the thing: every day is an opportunity to build momentum. The actions you take now, no matter how small, set the tone for how you step into 2025.
If you’re ready to start living with more clarity, authenticity and integrity...don’t wait. Make this a December of aligned action.
And remember: when you act with integrity, every step feels like progress, no matter how far you have to go. If this resonates, comment below or join me in The Life Reset Program - The Waitlist is open now to get you ready for the next round.
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Nikki ✨
Spiritual Life Coach & Artist
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