For everyone out there with goals, dreams and a drive to make it happen - how do you handle setbacks, challenges and even failure?
We are often told by coaches, gurus and the well intentioned to be more consistent, to follow the strategy and trust the process.
BUT - you are already doing that. I mean, you haven't given up yet!
Which means the problem isn't the consistency (that's good), the problem isn't the strategy (that's good too) and the problem isn't even in trusting the process...
So, why isn't this working for you?
The problem is not in the what - but the how. If that piece of the puzzle doesn't fit then you will inevitably find yourself stuck in a cycle of Rinse and Repeat = Defeat.
Not to be dramatic here but…are you the reason why you’re not seeing results?
Whether in business, love or life us humans can be really good at externalising blame.
Don't you agree?
*Opportunity
*Circumstance
*Other people
*The economy
*Competition
*The planets
*Health
*Wealth
*Time
…you get the picture here.
Sometime things do happen, people are crap and the moon maybe did effect your mood but this isn’t always the case though - is it?
Quick Self Test:
I invite you to consider a problem you are having and unpack the strategy you are running.
What are you doing?
What are the results?
Why do you keep doing the same thing if it doesn’t work? (No, really - WHY?)
Where did you learn this and from who?
Now that you have some more awareness around the origin and how it isn’t serving you, what choices could you make differently to get a different results?
I encourage you to take the time to unpack this fully and go as deep as possible.
Journal
Meditate
Paint
Call your bestie
Do the work
Need some help? Reach out and I’ll be there.
Loving what you're learning? Share in the comments your major take-away from today and what actions you will be taking!
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- Nikki Wouters: Coach & Creator
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